Out to Eat

One of the biggest challenges we have is going out to eat with our children. This truly applies to younger kids. Ours are 3 1/2 and 2. My wife and I tell ourselves that if one of us suggests going out to eat the other needs to apply a good swift kick to the backside. Sometimes we still end up out, some meals we have a great time and some turnout to be a disaster. We have some tricks of the trade that do seem to help:

1. Ask the server for some crackers or bread right away so the children can already be busy munching.
2. Bring a bag of tricks with small things they can be entertained by (crayons, coloring books, simple toys that don't take up a lot of space, books.)
3. Make sure all meals come out at the same time. Its easier if they are eating while you are trying to eat.
4. Have a good idea what you want to order so the service can be speedy.
5. Let your kids know that any hopes of dessert rest on them finishing their meal and behaving in the restaurant ( I know this is bribery, but it does work.)
6. If things get tough stay calm and remember it is only one meal out of a lifetime.

Honestly, it is wiser to eat home, cheaper and saves gas. But if you must eat out try my suggestions above to help ease the pain.